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Friday, March 26, 2021

Cultivating Lasting Habits 

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

Hello friends!

It’s spring and some of us may have fallen off the New Year’s Resolution wagon by now.  So, now what?🤔

Well, don’t throw in the towel.  It’s time to reset and begin again!

How about developing some achievable, sustainable habits that will lead you to your goals?  I’ve got some tips to help you along the way.


  1. Establish your goal and be specific.  Let’s say your goal is to read more (which may or may not be mine;). Decide on how many books and what types of books you want to read.
  2. Choose 2-4 small, attainable habits.  Decide on habits that you can incorporate into your daily life.  The key is to make the habits so easy it will be impossible to fail.  Suppose your goal is to read one book/month.  One of your small, simple habits could be to read 1 page when you get in bed.  That does not have to be your maximum, but it will help you solidify the habit.  While you are at it, you may choose to crank out 5 more pages or even a whole chapter. These small, simple habits make it easy to be consistent.
  3. Give yourself visual cues.  I have strategically placed books in specific places as a subtle reminder to open them:  a book on my bedside stand for bedtime and one on my table for lunchtime (which is usually a solo meal).  
  4. Share your habits.  Find a friend who has similar goals who would be willing to take on the same goals.  I have a friend who, like me, is interested in nutrition and health.  She has become my reading buddy.  We choose books, set the amount of chapters in advance and once/week we share what we’ve learned.  It’s a great way to encourage and learn from each other. 
  5. Be willing to adjust.  Six months from now, you may want to fine tune some of your original habits.  Maybe you will be ready to set more challenging goals.  Or perhaps you have been a little too unrealistic and need to pull back a bit.  Keep your vision of what you want to accomplish in mind.  By giving yourself some wriggle room you can avoid completely throwing in the towel.  
  6. Keep going!  Your small habits each day will add up to something substantial down the road.


“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” -Proverbs 16:3

Thursday, January 28, 2021

The Act of Living Generously


The Act of Living Generously

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator


Judy walked out of the Boston Oncologist’s office into the chilly fall day, she felt completely defeated and discouraged.  Fighting back the growing urge to give up on the hope that the cancer in her leg could ever be eradicated, she weaved her way through the crowd of people on the streets.  As she made her way toward her hotel, she decided to pack her bags and cancel the treatment and surgery. It was all too overwhelming.

As she turned a corner, she noticed a homeless man in a bit of distress.  He was apparently having a difficulty getting his jacket on.  Crowds of people were taking great measures to distance themselves from the man, crossing to the other side of the street as if he had a contagious disease.  Years ago, Judy had made a decision to acknowledge every homeless person that crossed her path.  This day was no different.  Despite her own despondency, she did not hesitate to approach the man.  She gently talked to him and helped him untangle his clothing.  As she turned to leave, he grabbed her shoulders, looked her in the eyes, and told her that she was a beautiful person.  Struck by this man’s genuine appreciation, she made a decision to go through with the treatment and surgery.  It ultimately saved her life.  Fast forward 25+ years, with her cane and prosthetic leg, she does not hesitate to cheerfully approach homeless people and strike up a conversation.  This has become her ministry.


“Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat.”  Mother Theresa 


My friend, Judy, is very ordinary-just like you and me.  She is not recognized as a  superstar.  She has just chosen to open her heart to be generous in her own intentional way.  

For many of us, it is easy to give at Christmas time.  There are a variety of very good charities and causes out there vying for our donations.  It’s important to financially support charities, of course.  But as we take down our trees and sweep out the needles, let us be intentional to not

 brush away our hearts for giving. 

Whether you have a passion for a specific cause or not, whether you have money or not, you have value and worth and can be used mightily by God.  All you need to do is open your heart and embrace the challenge.

I am using my friend as the standard for how I live my life in 2021 and beyond.  I pray God gives me a soft heart to recognize and respond to needs around me.  Please, won’t you join me?


“If we are worth anything, it is not because we have more money or talent, or more human qualities.  Insofar as we are worth anything, it is because we are grafted onto Christ’s life, His cross and resurrection.  That is a person’s measure.”  Oscar Romero

Tuesday, December 1, 2020


 Get Your Greens🥬 

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

As the weather gets cooler and we find ourselves cozying up indoors more, the desire to run to the store to restock the fridge becomes -well, less desirable.  However, the value of eating nutrient dense foods is more important than ever.  So before you reach for that box of Mac ‘n cheese or the frozen pizza, here are some painless ways to sneak those immune-supporting greens into your diet.  Enjoy your comfort food and keep your body running in peak condition.  Read on, my friends!


Not a fan?  If you (or a family member) are reluctant to add anything resembling a green leaf to your plate, don’t throw in the towel.  I’ve got some trouble shooting ideas for you.

  1. Low and slow.  Add small amounts of greens gradually.  Next time you make your favorite fruit smoothie, throw in a handful of frozen spinach.  Or throw a handful of frozen kale into your favorite soup or stew.  Adding small amounts consistently helps you get in the habit and makes it easier for your taste buds to adjust to the different flavor.
  2. Choose your variety.  There are so many variations of greens available in the supermarket.  If you don’t like one, try something new.  Romaine lettuce or spring greens are tender and mild.  Beginning with one of these is a great way to graduate from iceberg lettuce.  Spinach is the next level.  Fresh or frozen, it is the most versatile green out there.  It can be blended into smoothies or sautéed into your scrambled eggs.  Layer it into your grilled cheese sandwich or place with your fav toppings on your home made pizza.  Or simply rip open a bag and make a side salad, drizzled with balsamic vinegar and olive oil.  Other varieties to experiment with are:  arugula (peppery flavor), kale (hearty, strong flavor), collard (hearty, slightly bitter) and Swiss chard (medium heartiness, neutral flavored)
  3. Learn new ways to use them.  Tougher greens like kale and collard need to be massaged with olive oil and lemon juice (or cooked) before eating.  Bitter greens like arugula need to be paired with something sweet to balance the flavor.
  4. Get trying new recipes.  Look into your favorite cookbooks, blogs or Pinterest boards for new ideas.  Don’t be afraid to experiment!  You might find some unexpected hits or some failures.  Keep trying!

So if you find yourself grabbing your favorite pasta or rich comfort food while staying at home, try throwing greens in with them or create a green-centric side to balance out your plate.  Check out a couple of my recipes below!


Any green pesto with any roasted veggies 

For the pesto:

2 cups any combination of kale, spinach, arugula, basil, sage or parsley

3/4 cups nuts (any type works:  walnuts, almonds, sunflower seeds)

2 Tbsp nutritional yeast or parmesan cheese

Juice of 1 lemon

1-2 cloves garlic

1/2 tsp salt

1/4 cup olive oil

Place in blender and blend until preferred consistency (smooth or slightly chunky)


For the roasted veggies:

2-4 cups veggies.  Favorite combinations:  bell pepper, onion, zucchini or butternut squash, onion, mushroom.

1-2 Tbsp olive or walnut oil

1 tsp salt

1 tsp favorite dried herbs such as herb de Provence or 

1-2 Tbsp favorite fresh herbs like sage or thyme.

Chop veggies about 1 inch thick.  Toss with oil, salt and herbs.  Roast 400 at 30 minutes.  Serve tossed in the pesto sauce with a side of rice or potatoes.


Green apple smoothie


Blend 1 green apple, 2 cups of spinach, 1 stalk of celery, 1 Tbsp chia seeds, 1 Tbsp hemp hearts, 1/2 medium frozen zucchini, 1/4 tsp cinnamon and sweetener of your choice.  Add nut milk to reach right consistency.


Thursday, November 5, 2020

My Daughter Loves Ballet!  Now What? Dad?

By Darin Zehr


I have to admit, when our daughter started ballet, my comfort level of how to engage with anything more than a “so, how did it go?” was not real strong.  Not an area I had been around before.  “Hut Hut”, I got it, “Tutu”?, eh.  Fortunately, my background doesn’t dictate what our children engage with in life. 


Our youngest daughter has now been involved with LWB for somewhere just short of a decade.  I have zero excuses for not supporting her.  


You, Dad, may be in a similar situation I was in.  So, with the support of some other ballet battle tested Dads, here are a few thoughts on what NOT to do in supporting your daughter(s).  


  • Don’t go to her performances.  If you do, she will think you care about her and what she has passion about.  Also, it may be overrated being impressed by how much she has improved.  As a bonus, you won’t have to speak with any of her teachers.  That may be awkward, they may tell you how great your daughter is.  And then there’s the other ballet parents...  enough said.
  • Make sure you don’t talk to her about her teachers and what she is learning. The ballet technique discussion is weird enough, but the truth that she is being taught about life can be a bit over the top.  That truth which will help her grow into a strong young lady, will also help you grow, and who wants to learn because of their children?
  • Buy yourself a tutu and practice ballet.   YouTube videos could work as a guide. Your daughter will be so impressed with the effort and possible injuries that you overcome. As a bonus, the odds your wife will think you look fantastic in a tutu are greater than winning the lottery. 


For more advanced guidance, talk to your wife. 


Darin


PS. On a more straightforward note.  LWB is a great blessing to our daughters. To have a group provide such great character development, love, and life lessons for our daughters through teaching and activation is amazing. The ballet is great, but the life impact is greater. God has blessed the mission of LWB and we, as Dads, get the benefit of them helping raise our daughters.  I would encourage you, especially during these challenging times, to love and support your daughter greatly, and look for ways to support LWB in all ways you can.  May God bless you and your family.  

Tuesday, October 20, 2020

 Meeting the Needs of Your Ballerina

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator 

Do the shoes in these photos look familiar?  Chances are, if you have a ballet dancer or more   under your roof, you probably have seen similar items scattered in your daughter’s bedroom and ballet bag.  The pair on the left is my daughter, Isabelle’s, first pair of ballet shoes.  The second is not a photo of a dog’s chew toy.  Isabelle wore those out until they hardly resembled a ballet shoe.  Apparently ballet slippers get better with age:-)

As the ballet shoes aged, so did the dancer.  She is now an apprentice in Light of the World Ballet.  I cannot take the credit for her getting to where she is today.  I give God the glory, as well as all her wonderful teachers. (Check out the photo below of one of her favorite teachers.). Having said that, I am very aware that parents have a significant role in supporting their ballet dancers in so many ways:  spiritually, physically, socially, and mentally/emotionally.  I asked some of my wise “ballet mom friends” to send me ways that they have helped and encouraged their girls throughout the years.  Below is a compilation of their ideas, plus a few of my own.  (Shout out to Heather, Karla, and Jackie.)  New, as well as seasoned ballet moms, here’s some encouragement and inspiration!

Spiritual Needs:

Pray, pray, pray.  Pray in your quiet time but children also love to hear you pray for them.  Write a little note or scripture verse and tuck it in her bag.  

Pray for all aspects of LWB- the company members, trainees, the outreach performances,  the school, the students, mission trips, finances.  Ultimately, pray for lives being saved by God through the vessel of Light of the World Ballet.


Physical Needs:  

Time:  As your dancer progresses to higher levels, the time commitment increases (3 or 4 days a week).  Be ready to take this on.  Finding parents to carpool may become essential.  Your dancer may reach a point where she will have to pull out of some activities to make time for ballet.  

Rest:  8-9 hours of rest helps your dancer’s body recover and grow.  It will also keep her mentally sharp and focused.    

Nutrition:  Prepare nourishing, whole-food snacks and/or meals for breaks during class as well as performances.  Non-sugar snacks will help sustain her energy levels through long rehearsals.   Plenty of water is essential as well.

Injuries:  Be aware of any sudden or ongoing pains and communicate with your daughter’s teachers about Dr.’s recommendations, etc.  

Ballet clothing/accessories:  Before classes and performances, make sure your daughter has her ballet shoes, leotards, etc.  Routinely check the condition of her pointe shoes and ask her teacher when she needs to get a new pair.

Emotional Needs

After performances, be ready with specific words of encouragement and give areas where you have noticed growth (joyful smile, turn-out is improving, arms are graceful, etc).  Have a tender heart to listen.  Whether your daughter leaves class walking on sunshine or feeling sad, be quick to listen and then be ready with words of encouragement and wisdom. 

Social/family needs

The influence of Light of the World Ballet can permeate into the whole family, not just the dancer.  This is a wonderful benefit to every child in your home.  Because it is a sacrifice/commitment from the whole family, it is good to openly talk about the value of LWB.

Allow opportunities for your daughter to spend time outside the studio with classmates.  Some of my daughter’s closest friendships developed when she got to know the girls that she danced with.  Their genuine care for each other overflowed into the studio and benefited class time as well as performances.

Stay tuned!  Words of wisdom from the dads next month:)


             Left to right:  Isabelle, Miss Breanne, Mia and Sally.  Circa 2016



Wednesday, June 10, 2020

Summer Produce- How to cook with what you have

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee coordinator

Memorial Day has come and gone.  After the chilly spring, lets say summer is here, shall we?   Our green house friend said this is a record breaking year for planting gardens.  Since people may end up spending more time at home this summer, they may as well have a fun hobby that gives back plentifully all summer long.  If you are one of the many who are tending to a vegetable garden, berry patch, or fruit tree, you may be thinking about what to do with it all once it gets harvested. 
Here is a list of ways to flavor up the “fruits of your labor.”  
[P.S. No shame in shopping at the farmer’s market.]

Asparagus:  Grill whole spears as a side dish.  Or use a veggie peeler to make thin strips and place over your salad greens.  Pairs well with a drizzle of white wine vinegar or champagne vinegar. 

Broccoli:  Steam until tender crisp.  Dip or drizzle whisked lemon juice, olive oil, garlic, chili flakes (optional) and salt. Or slice thin raw broccoli and brussels sprouts and toss with white balsamic vinegar and olive oil for a quick and crunchy salad.  Add on fruit, nuts or dried fruit.

Carrots:  Carrot cake overnight oats.  Shred carrots (1/2 cup) and add to a bowl with 1 cup oats and 1 1/4 cup almond milk.  Stir in 3 Tbsp maple syrup, 1 Tbsp chia seeds, 1 tsp cinnamon, 1/4 tsp nutmeg, 3 Tbsp chopped walnuts and 3 Tbsp golden raisins.  Save tops to make Carrot Top pestoPurée in a blender 1/2 cup sunflower seeds, 2-4 garlic cloves or 2/3 cup garlic scapes, juice of one lemon, 3 tbsp olive oil, 1 tsp honey, 1/4 tsp salt.  Use as a spread for pizza or base for dressing.  Or toss pesto with cooked grains and chopped veggies for a quick salad.

Cilantro:  Southwest Sweet potato dip. Roast sweet potato cubes drizzled with a little olive oil, maple syrup and a sprinkle of salt at 325 for 20 minutes.  Add 1 cup corn the last 5 minutes.  Make a sauce with mashed avocado, 3 Tbsp lime juice, 1-2 Tbsp maple syrup and 1 Tbsp olive oil.  Chop red onions and a handful of cilantro and stir everything together. Serve with corn chips.  Or try a green herb tahini sauce.  Blend 1/2 cup tahini, 1/2 cup water,2 Tbsp olive oil, 2 Tbsp lemon juice, 1 garlic clove, 1/2 tsp salt, 2 cups cilantro, 2 cups parsley, 1/2 cup mint, and 1 date.  Great as a dip for roasted sweet potato wedges.

Cucumber:  Mint and cucumber infused water.  Place a sliced cucumber and a couple sprigs of mint in a pitcher of water.  Place in refrigerator for 1-2 hours.  Marinated cucumber is easy and refreshing:  Shred and place in a mason jar.  marinate with rice vinegar, sesame oil and a pinch of salt.  Can also layer in other shredded hard veggies to make a rainbow effect:  bell peppers, carrots, radishes, red cabbage.

Dill:  Make a cashew dill spread for baguette slices.  Soak 1 1/2 cups cashews overnight, drain and rinse.  Place in a high speed blender with some 1 tsp garlic flakes,  Tbsp nutritional yeast, 1 Tbsp apple cider vinegar, 1/4 tsp salt, and juice of 1 lemon.  Add chopped dill and season with salt and pepper.  Thin with a little water to make a pourable dressing for your salad.

Kale:  For a great salad, remove the ribs and massage with olive oil and lemon juice to remove the bitterness.  Toss with mango and goat cheese.  Or roast your own kale chips.  Lay ripped pieces of kale on a sprayed cookie sheet.  Sprinkle with olive oil, salt, and nutritionally yeast.  Bake at 375 for 8-10 minutes.

Onion:  Caramelized onion.  Thinly slice a variety of 3 onions.  Toss with 4 chopped garlic cloves, 1/4 cup water and 2 Tbsp salt.  Mound everything in the center of a sheet pan and bake 40-50 minutes, tossing everything after 30 minutes.  Caramelized onions can be stirred into Greek yogurt for a quick dip.  Or use as a topping on avocado toast or burgers.

Peaches and plums:  Roasted stone fruit. Halve and take the pit out of 4-6 peaches and/or plums and place on a big sheet of aluminum foil.  Top with honey and cinnamon.  Wrap tightly and place on warm grill for 10-20 minutes.  Open up packet and serve with blackberry sauce:  blend 2 cups blackberries, 1/2 squeezed lemon, 1 Tbsp maple syrup, 1/4 tsp cinnamon, and a pinch of salt.  Or cook up a quick stone fruit compote to top pancakes:  1 pound sliced plums/peaches, 1-2 Tbsp grated ginger, 1/2 tsp cardamom, pinch of salt, 2 Tbsp maple syrup and 1/4 cup water.  Cook in a pan 5-7 minutes.


Strawberries;  Mango and strawberry salsa Stir together a handful of chopped cilantro, 1/2 chopped red pepper, 2 cubed mangos, 5-6 chopped strawberries, 1/4 finely diced red onion, 1 tsp honey, 1 Tbsp lime juice and salt.  Serve over grilled fish.  Or serve Strawberry Chia Pudding for breakfast, snack or dessert.  In a blender or food processor add 1 cup fresh strawberries, 1 can of coconut milk, 2 Tbsp honey, 1 tsp vanilla bean paste (or vanilla extract), and 2 tsp rose water (optional).  Add mixture to a bowl along with 1/4 cup chia seeds.  Cover and let rest 4 hours or overnight.

Tomatoes:  Two classic salads that rely on fresh tomatoes:  Tomato Caprese and Panzanella .  Tomato caprese:  On a serving tray layer tomato and fresh mozzarella slices.  Drizzle olive oil, balsamic or white balsamic vinegar over everything.  Panzanella:  In a bowl, lightly stir together halved cherry tomatoes, fresh oregano leaves, olive oil, sherry or red wine vinegar, ripped up chunks of whole grain bread and crumbled feta. Both salads can be topped with crispy fried shallots.

Zucchini:  Zucchini noodles and roasted cherry tomatoes.  Roast halved cherry tomatoes, chopped garlic and fresh thyme on a sheet pan at 300 for 1 hour. (Make extra to freeze.)  In the meantime, use a spiralizer to make thin strips out of 2-3 zucchini.  Sauté in a medium pan with a little olive oil.  Place tomatoes on top of zucchini and squeeze a lemon over it.  Drizzle with olive oil.  Sprinkle with everything bagel seasoning.

There you have it!  A quick guide to summer cooking.  I would love to see pics of the great dishes you are going to be creating and serving to everyone you love.  Email me at rebekah@zehr.net or saladvantage@outlook.com


Thursday, April 30, 2020

The Value of What?

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

Pop quiz!  Quickly jot down ten things in nature you are thankful for.  I’m guessing rainbows, puppies and butterflies may be in there somewhere?  Anyone write down lice or fleas?  No???!!  Since October 31, 2019, as part of my devo time, every morning I have written down ten things I’m thankful for.  If I were to glance back through the 1,980 items, I’m pretty sure there would be neither lice nor fleas mentioned.
In 2004, our family had a surprise lice visit.  My husband had just accepted a job transfer and our family moved to Minnesota.  Within days of moving into our new home, one of our children came home from school with the dreaded little bugs jumping around her head.  Still thinking about it makes me cringe and itch my head.  We didn’t have a washer and dryer in our new home yet, so I hauled all the bedding, clothing and stuffed animals to the laundry mat.  Everyone in the family had their hair treated.  This was all in the midst of the chaos of unpacking and the start of a new school year.  It was an interesting way to kick off our new life in a new state.  Had I been asked at the time if I appreciated lice, I wouldn’t have hesitated to say absolutely not- it added a bit of stress to our lives.  However, I believe God did have a reason for the lice, beyond my understanding.  Those little pests caused me to feel quite humble - because it felt like it was something I couldn’t cope with or control.  It’s funny how adversity brings us to our knees.
During the summer of 2017, my husband and I traveled with friends to Amsterdam.  A highlight of the trip was a guided tour through Corrie ten Boom’s home in Haarlem.  Her incredible story of faith, obedience and forgiveness during the Holocaust was recorded in her biography, The Hiding Place.  Seeing every room of the little house made the reality of the events in her book very real.  Corrie and her sister Betsie, daughters of a watchman, worked with their father to help many Jews escape the Nazis from the Holocaust during World War ll by hiding them in their home. They were a strong Christian family who believed that God wanted them to protect Jews.  The entire family was eventually caught and arrested.  The sisters were incarcerated in Ravensbruck concentration camp, where Betsie died at age 59.    
There was a particular flea situation in the book that caused me to have a new perspective on fleas and other “little” things in life that cause distress.  The following is a paraphrased excerpt from the book.  In their barracks, there were a series of platforms stacked three levels high and packed in so tight the women were like human sardines.  Rancid straw placed on top of the platforms served as mattresses.  Not exactly sanitary conditions.  At one point Corrie became exasperated as she was being bitten by fleas.  “Fleas”, she cried.  “Betsie, the place is swarming with them...Betsie, how can we live in such a place?”  And then Betsie did something incredible- she began to pray.  “Show us.  Show us how....Corrie!  He has given us the answer, as He always does!”  In a smuggled, hidden Bible, Betsie asked Corrie to read a passage they had read together earlier that morning.  1 Thessalonians 5:14-18:  “Comfort the frightened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.  See that none of you repays evil for evil, but always seek to do good for one another and to all.  Rejoice always, pray constantly, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus.”  Betsie had a revelation- to give thanks in all circumstances.  She and Corrie thought of every thing in the barracks that they could be thankful for.  It all sounded great until Betsie thanked God for the fleas.  Corrie went along with this even though she was sure Betsie was wrong.  As time went on, Corrie came to realize that Betsie was, in fact, correct.  There was a purpose for the fleas.  The sisters discovered that the guards were very aware of the infestation and refused to enter the platforms, leaving the Bible undetected, and ultimately protecting the women who were housed there from the abuse of the guards.
As I reflect on the flea affliction, our lice situation, as well as other times in my life that I have had to endure  pain and hardship, I can see that God had a purpose for it.  Beyond what I could see at the time.  And I have always had a choice.  I could choose to become bitter and resentful.  Or I could choose to humble myself and turn to God, and be thankful in all circumstances.

Looking back, I can see numerous blessings that occurred during the two years that we lived in Minnesota, despite the rough patch at the beginning.  When the unwelcome pests invaded our new home, I immediately drew closer to God.  I turned to Him at a time when I could have easily gotten caught up with the “we are in a new place and have to start over with everything” phase.  Our spiritual lives in Minnesota grew immensely and we became closer as a family.  It was like God had hit a re-set button.  It was the first time in our married life we found a church that fit biblically and challenged us to work out our faith.  All of the obligations that had piled up in New York fell away when we moved to Minnesota.  We had redeemed time with our children and they thrived.  Bottom line, I am thankful for the lice as this may have been the pivotal moment when I turned toward God.  Maybe lice will be #1,981 in my gratitude list tomorrow morning...
Corrie & Betsie ten Boom
I pray that our hearts and lips overflow with gratitude as we live life out in this unusual time.  Even when faced with discouraging circumstances, we all can turn to the Lord, who continues to be an ever present help in time of need.  As we focus on God’s blessings, may our hearts be lightened so that we can become more able to serve God, our families and our communities and ultimately spread His light to a world in need.