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Friday, March 26, 2021

Cultivating Lasting Habits 

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

Hello friends!

It’s spring and some of us may have fallen off the New Year’s Resolution wagon by now.  So, now what?🤔

Well, don’t throw in the towel.  It’s time to reset and begin again!

How about developing some achievable, sustainable habits that will lead you to your goals?  I’ve got some tips to help you along the way.


  1. Establish your goal and be specific.  Let’s say your goal is to read more (which may or may not be mine;). Decide on how many books and what types of books you want to read.
  2. Choose 2-4 small, attainable habits.  Decide on habits that you can incorporate into your daily life.  The key is to make the habits so easy it will be impossible to fail.  Suppose your goal is to read one book/month.  One of your small, simple habits could be to read 1 page when you get in bed.  That does not have to be your maximum, but it will help you solidify the habit.  While you are at it, you may choose to crank out 5 more pages or even a whole chapter. These small, simple habits make it easy to be consistent.
  3. Give yourself visual cues.  I have strategically placed books in specific places as a subtle reminder to open them:  a book on my bedside stand for bedtime and one on my table for lunchtime (which is usually a solo meal).  
  4. Share your habits.  Find a friend who has similar goals who would be willing to take on the same goals.  I have a friend who, like me, is interested in nutrition and health.  She has become my reading buddy.  We choose books, set the amount of chapters in advance and once/week we share what we’ve learned.  It’s a great way to encourage and learn from each other. 
  5. Be willing to adjust.  Six months from now, you may want to fine tune some of your original habits.  Maybe you will be ready to set more challenging goals.  Or perhaps you have been a little too unrealistic and need to pull back a bit.  Keep your vision of what you want to accomplish in mind.  By giving yourself some wriggle room you can avoid completely throwing in the towel.  
  6. Keep going!  Your small habits each day will add up to something substantial down the road.


“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” -Proverbs 16:3

Thursday, January 28, 2021

The Act of Living Generously


The Act of Living Generously

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator


Judy walked out of the Boston Oncologist’s office into the chilly fall day, she felt completely defeated and discouraged.  Fighting back the growing urge to give up on the hope that the cancer in her leg could ever be eradicated, she weaved her way through the crowd of people on the streets.  As she made her way toward her hotel, she decided to pack her bags and cancel the treatment and surgery. It was all too overwhelming.

As she turned a corner, she noticed a homeless man in a bit of distress.  He was apparently having a difficulty getting his jacket on.  Crowds of people were taking great measures to distance themselves from the man, crossing to the other side of the street as if he had a contagious disease.  Years ago, Judy had made a decision to acknowledge every homeless person that crossed her path.  This day was no different.  Despite her own despondency, she did not hesitate to approach the man.  She gently talked to him and helped him untangle his clothing.  As she turned to leave, he grabbed her shoulders, looked her in the eyes, and told her that she was a beautiful person.  Struck by this man’s genuine appreciation, she made a decision to go through with the treatment and surgery.  It ultimately saved her life.  Fast forward 25+ years, with her cane and prosthetic leg, she does not hesitate to cheerfully approach homeless people and strike up a conversation.  This has become her ministry.


“Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat.”  Mother Theresa 


My friend, Judy, is very ordinary-just like you and me.  She is not recognized as a  superstar.  She has just chosen to open her heart to be generous in her own intentional way.  

For many of us, it is easy to give at Christmas time.  There are a variety of very good charities and causes out there vying for our donations.  It’s important to financially support charities, of course.  But as we take down our trees and sweep out the needles, let us be intentional to not

 brush away our hearts for giving. 

Whether you have a passion for a specific cause or not, whether you have money or not, you have value and worth and can be used mightily by God.  All you need to do is open your heart and embrace the challenge.

I am using my friend as the standard for how I live my life in 2021 and beyond.  I pray God gives me a soft heart to recognize and respond to needs around me.  Please, won’t you join me?


“If we are worth anything, it is not because we have more money or talent, or more human qualities.  Insofar as we are worth anything, it is because we are grafted onto Christ’s life, His cross and resurrection.  That is a person’s measure.”  Oscar Romero

Tuesday, December 1, 2020


 Get Your Greens🥬 

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

As the weather gets cooler and we find ourselves cozying up indoors more, the desire to run to the store to restock the fridge becomes -well, less desirable.  However, the value of eating nutrient dense foods is more important than ever.  So before you reach for that box of Mac ‘n cheese or the frozen pizza, here are some painless ways to sneak those immune-supporting greens into your diet.  Enjoy your comfort food and keep your body running in peak condition.  Read on, my friends!


Not a fan?  If you (or a family member) are reluctant to add anything resembling a green leaf to your plate, don’t throw in the towel.  I’ve got some trouble shooting ideas for you.

  1. Low and slow.  Add small amounts of greens gradually.  Next time you make your favorite fruit smoothie, throw in a handful of frozen spinach.  Or throw a handful of frozen kale into your favorite soup or stew.  Adding small amounts consistently helps you get in the habit and makes it easier for your taste buds to adjust to the different flavor.
  2. Choose your variety.  There are so many variations of greens available in the supermarket.  If you don’t like one, try something new.  Romaine lettuce or spring greens are tender and mild.  Beginning with one of these is a great way to graduate from iceberg lettuce.  Spinach is the next level.  Fresh or frozen, it is the most versatile green out there.  It can be blended into smoothies or sautéed into your scrambled eggs.  Layer it into your grilled cheese sandwich or place with your fav toppings on your home made pizza.  Or simply rip open a bag and make a side salad, drizzled with balsamic vinegar and olive oil.  Other varieties to experiment with are:  arugula (peppery flavor), kale (hearty, strong flavor), collard (hearty, slightly bitter) and Swiss chard (medium heartiness, neutral flavored)
  3. Learn new ways to use them.  Tougher greens like kale and collard need to be massaged with olive oil and lemon juice (or cooked) before eating.  Bitter greens like arugula need to be paired with something sweet to balance the flavor.
  4. Get trying new recipes.  Look into your favorite cookbooks, blogs or Pinterest boards for new ideas.  Don’t be afraid to experiment!  You might find some unexpected hits or some failures.  Keep trying!

So if you find yourself grabbing your favorite pasta or rich comfort food while staying at home, try throwing greens in with them or create a green-centric side to balance out your plate.  Check out a couple of my recipes below!


Any green pesto with any roasted veggies 

For the pesto:

2 cups any combination of kale, spinach, arugula, basil, sage or parsley

3/4 cups nuts (any type works:  walnuts, almonds, sunflower seeds)

2 Tbsp nutritional yeast or parmesan cheese

Juice of 1 lemon

1-2 cloves garlic

1/2 tsp salt

1/4 cup olive oil

Place in blender and blend until preferred consistency (smooth or slightly chunky)


For the roasted veggies:

2-4 cups veggies.  Favorite combinations:  bell pepper, onion, zucchini or butternut squash, onion, mushroom.

1-2 Tbsp olive or walnut oil

1 tsp salt

1 tsp favorite dried herbs such as herb de Provence or 

1-2 Tbsp favorite fresh herbs like sage or thyme.

Chop veggies about 1 inch thick.  Toss with oil, salt and herbs.  Roast 400 at 30 minutes.  Serve tossed in the pesto sauce with a side of rice or potatoes.


Green apple smoothie


Blend 1 green apple, 2 cups of spinach, 1 stalk of celery, 1 Tbsp chia seeds, 1 Tbsp hemp hearts, 1/2 medium frozen zucchini, 1/4 tsp cinnamon and sweetener of your choice.  Add nut milk to reach right consistency.


Thursday, November 5, 2020

My Daughter Loves Ballet!  Now What? Dad?

By Darin Zehr


I have to admit, when our daughter started ballet, my comfort level of how to engage with anything more than a “so, how did it go?” was not real strong.  Not an area I had been around before.  “Hut Hut”, I got it, “Tutu”?, eh.  Fortunately, my background doesn’t dictate what our children engage with in life. 


Our youngest daughter has now been involved with LWB for somewhere just short of a decade.  I have zero excuses for not supporting her.  


You, Dad, may be in a similar situation I was in.  So, with the support of some other ballet battle tested Dads, here are a few thoughts on what NOT to do in supporting your daughter(s).  


  • Don’t go to her performances.  If you do, she will think you care about her and what she has passion about.  Also, it may be overrated being impressed by how much she has improved.  As a bonus, you won’t have to speak with any of her teachers.  That may be awkward, they may tell you how great your daughter is.  And then there’s the other ballet parents...  enough said.
  • Make sure you don’t talk to her about her teachers and what she is learning. The ballet technique discussion is weird enough, but the truth that she is being taught about life can be a bit over the top.  That truth which will help her grow into a strong young lady, will also help you grow, and who wants to learn because of their children?
  • Buy yourself a tutu and practice ballet.   YouTube videos could work as a guide. Your daughter will be so impressed with the effort and possible injuries that you overcome. As a bonus, the odds your wife will think you look fantastic in a tutu are greater than winning the lottery. 


For more advanced guidance, talk to your wife. 


Darin


PS. On a more straightforward note.  LWB is a great blessing to our daughters. To have a group provide such great character development, love, and life lessons for our daughters through teaching and activation is amazing. The ballet is great, but the life impact is greater. God has blessed the mission of LWB and we, as Dads, get the benefit of them helping raise our daughters.  I would encourage you, especially during these challenging times, to love and support your daughter greatly, and look for ways to support LWB in all ways you can.  May God bless you and your family.  

Tuesday, October 20, 2020

 Meeting the Needs of Your Ballerina

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator 

Do the shoes in these photos look familiar?  Chances are, if you have a ballet dancer or more   under your roof, you probably have seen similar items scattered in your daughter’s bedroom and ballet bag.  The pair on the left is my daughter, Isabelle’s, first pair of ballet shoes.  The second is not a photo of a dog’s chew toy.  Isabelle wore those out until they hardly resembled a ballet shoe.  Apparently ballet slippers get better with age:-)

As the ballet shoes aged, so did the dancer.  She is now an apprentice in Light of the World Ballet.  I cannot take the credit for her getting to where she is today.  I give God the glory, as well as all her wonderful teachers. (Check out the photo below of one of her favorite teachers.). Having said that, I am very aware that parents have a significant role in supporting their ballet dancers in so many ways:  spiritually, physically, socially, and mentally/emotionally.  I asked some of my wise “ballet mom friends” to send me ways that they have helped and encouraged their girls throughout the years.  Below is a compilation of their ideas, plus a few of my own.  (Shout out to Heather, Karla, and Jackie.)  New, as well as seasoned ballet moms, here’s some encouragement and inspiration!

Spiritual Needs:

Pray, pray, pray.  Pray in your quiet time but children also love to hear you pray for them.  Write a little note or scripture verse and tuck it in her bag.  

Pray for all aspects of LWB- the company members, trainees, the outreach performances,  the school, the students, mission trips, finances.  Ultimately, pray for lives being saved by God through the vessel of Light of the World Ballet.


Physical Needs:  

Time:  As your dancer progresses to higher levels, the time commitment increases (3 or 4 days a week).  Be ready to take this on.  Finding parents to carpool may become essential.  Your dancer may reach a point where she will have to pull out of some activities to make time for ballet.  

Rest:  8-9 hours of rest helps your dancer’s body recover and grow.  It will also keep her mentally sharp and focused.    

Nutrition:  Prepare nourishing, whole-food snacks and/or meals for breaks during class as well as performances.  Non-sugar snacks will help sustain her energy levels through long rehearsals.   Plenty of water is essential as well.

Injuries:  Be aware of any sudden or ongoing pains and communicate with your daughter’s teachers about Dr.’s recommendations, etc.  

Ballet clothing/accessories:  Before classes and performances, make sure your daughter has her ballet shoes, leotards, etc.  Routinely check the condition of her pointe shoes and ask her teacher when she needs to get a new pair.

Emotional Needs

After performances, be ready with specific words of encouragement and give areas where you have noticed growth (joyful smile, turn-out is improving, arms are graceful, etc).  Have a tender heart to listen.  Whether your daughter leaves class walking on sunshine or feeling sad, be quick to listen and then be ready with words of encouragement and wisdom. 

Social/family needs

The influence of Light of the World Ballet can permeate into the whole family, not just the dancer.  This is a wonderful benefit to every child in your home.  Because it is a sacrifice/commitment from the whole family, it is good to openly talk about the value of LWB.

Allow opportunities for your daughter to spend time outside the studio with classmates.  Some of my daughter’s closest friendships developed when she got to know the girls that she danced with.  Their genuine care for each other overflowed into the studio and benefited class time as well as performances.

Stay tuned!  Words of wisdom from the dads next month:)


             Left to right:  Isabelle, Miss Breanne, Mia and Sally.  Circa 2016



Wednesday, June 10, 2020

Summer Produce- How to cook with what you have

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee coordinator

Memorial Day has come and gone.  After the chilly spring, lets say summer is here, shall we?   Our green house friend said this is a record breaking year for planting gardens.  Since people may end up spending more time at home this summer, they may as well have a fun hobby that gives back plentifully all summer long.  If you are one of the many who are tending to a vegetable garden, berry patch, or fruit tree, you may be thinking about what to do with it all once it gets harvested. 
Here is a list of ways to flavor up the “fruits of your labor.”  
[P.S. No shame in shopping at the farmer’s market.]

Asparagus:  Grill whole spears as a side dish.  Or use a veggie peeler to make thin strips and place over your salad greens.  Pairs well with a drizzle of white wine vinegar or champagne vinegar. 

Broccoli:  Steam until tender crisp.  Dip or drizzle whisked lemon juice, olive oil, garlic, chili flakes (optional) and salt. Or slice thin raw broccoli and brussels sprouts and toss with white balsamic vinegar and olive oil for a quick and crunchy salad.  Add on fruit, nuts or dried fruit.

Carrots:  Carrot cake overnight oats.  Shred carrots (1/2 cup) and add to a bowl with 1 cup oats and 1 1/4 cup almond milk.  Stir in 3 Tbsp maple syrup, 1 Tbsp chia seeds, 1 tsp cinnamon, 1/4 tsp nutmeg, 3 Tbsp chopped walnuts and 3 Tbsp golden raisins.  Save tops to make Carrot Top pestoPurée in a blender 1/2 cup sunflower seeds, 2-4 garlic cloves or 2/3 cup garlic scapes, juice of one lemon, 3 tbsp olive oil, 1 tsp honey, 1/4 tsp salt.  Use as a spread for pizza or base for dressing.  Or toss pesto with cooked grains and chopped veggies for a quick salad.

Cilantro:  Southwest Sweet potato dip. Roast sweet potato cubes drizzled with a little olive oil, maple syrup and a sprinkle of salt at 325 for 20 minutes.  Add 1 cup corn the last 5 minutes.  Make a sauce with mashed avocado, 3 Tbsp lime juice, 1-2 Tbsp maple syrup and 1 Tbsp olive oil.  Chop red onions and a handful of cilantro and stir everything together. Serve with corn chips.  Or try a green herb tahini sauce.  Blend 1/2 cup tahini, 1/2 cup water,2 Tbsp olive oil, 2 Tbsp lemon juice, 1 garlic clove, 1/2 tsp salt, 2 cups cilantro, 2 cups parsley, 1/2 cup mint, and 1 date.  Great as a dip for roasted sweet potato wedges.

Cucumber:  Mint and cucumber infused water.  Place a sliced cucumber and a couple sprigs of mint in a pitcher of water.  Place in refrigerator for 1-2 hours.  Marinated cucumber is easy and refreshing:  Shred and place in a mason jar.  marinate with rice vinegar, sesame oil and a pinch of salt.  Can also layer in other shredded hard veggies to make a rainbow effect:  bell peppers, carrots, radishes, red cabbage.

Dill:  Make a cashew dill spread for baguette slices.  Soak 1 1/2 cups cashews overnight, drain and rinse.  Place in a high speed blender with some 1 tsp garlic flakes,  Tbsp nutritional yeast, 1 Tbsp apple cider vinegar, 1/4 tsp salt, and juice of 1 lemon.  Add chopped dill and season with salt and pepper.  Thin with a little water to make a pourable dressing for your salad.

Kale:  For a great salad, remove the ribs and massage with olive oil and lemon juice to remove the bitterness.  Toss with mango and goat cheese.  Or roast your own kale chips.  Lay ripped pieces of kale on a sprayed cookie sheet.  Sprinkle with olive oil, salt, and nutritionally yeast.  Bake at 375 for 8-10 minutes.

Onion:  Caramelized onion.  Thinly slice a variety of 3 onions.  Toss with 4 chopped garlic cloves, 1/4 cup water and 2 Tbsp salt.  Mound everything in the center of a sheet pan and bake 40-50 minutes, tossing everything after 30 minutes.  Caramelized onions can be stirred into Greek yogurt for a quick dip.  Or use as a topping on avocado toast or burgers.

Peaches and plums:  Roasted stone fruit. Halve and take the pit out of 4-6 peaches and/or plums and place on a big sheet of aluminum foil.  Top with honey and cinnamon.  Wrap tightly and place on warm grill for 10-20 minutes.  Open up packet and serve with blackberry sauce:  blend 2 cups blackberries, 1/2 squeezed lemon, 1 Tbsp maple syrup, 1/4 tsp cinnamon, and a pinch of salt.  Or cook up a quick stone fruit compote to top pancakes:  1 pound sliced plums/peaches, 1-2 Tbsp grated ginger, 1/2 tsp cardamom, pinch of salt, 2 Tbsp maple syrup and 1/4 cup water.  Cook in a pan 5-7 minutes.


Strawberries;  Mango and strawberry salsa Stir together a handful of chopped cilantro, 1/2 chopped red pepper, 2 cubed mangos, 5-6 chopped strawberries, 1/4 finely diced red onion, 1 tsp honey, 1 Tbsp lime juice and salt.  Serve over grilled fish.  Or serve Strawberry Chia Pudding for breakfast, snack or dessert.  In a blender or food processor add 1 cup fresh strawberries, 1 can of coconut milk, 2 Tbsp honey, 1 tsp vanilla bean paste (or vanilla extract), and 2 tsp rose water (optional).  Add mixture to a bowl along with 1/4 cup chia seeds.  Cover and let rest 4 hours or overnight.

Tomatoes:  Two classic salads that rely on fresh tomatoes:  Tomato Caprese and Panzanella .  Tomato caprese:  On a serving tray layer tomato and fresh mozzarella slices.  Drizzle olive oil, balsamic or white balsamic vinegar over everything.  Panzanella:  In a bowl, lightly stir together halved cherry tomatoes, fresh oregano leaves, olive oil, sherry or red wine vinegar, ripped up chunks of whole grain bread and crumbled feta. Both salads can be topped with crispy fried shallots.

Zucchini:  Zucchini noodles and roasted cherry tomatoes.  Roast halved cherry tomatoes, chopped garlic and fresh thyme on a sheet pan at 300 for 1 hour. (Make extra to freeze.)  In the meantime, use a spiralizer to make thin strips out of 2-3 zucchini.  Sauté in a medium pan with a little olive oil.  Place tomatoes on top of zucchini and squeeze a lemon over it.  Drizzle with olive oil.  Sprinkle with everything bagel seasoning.

There you have it!  A quick guide to summer cooking.  I would love to see pics of the great dishes you are going to be creating and serving to everyone you love.  Email me at rebekah@zehr.net or saladvantage@outlook.com


Thursday, April 30, 2020

The Value of What?

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

Pop quiz!  Quickly jot down ten things in nature you are thankful for.  I’m guessing rainbows, puppies and butterflies may be in there somewhere?  Anyone write down lice or fleas?  No???!!  Since October 31, 2019, as part of my devo time, every morning I have written down ten things I’m thankful for.  If I were to glance back through the 1,980 items, I’m pretty sure there would be neither lice nor fleas mentioned.
In 2004, our family had a surprise lice visit.  My husband had just accepted a job transfer and our family moved to Minnesota.  Within days of moving into our new home, one of our children came home from school with the dreaded little bugs jumping around her head.  Still thinking about it makes me cringe and itch my head.  We didn’t have a washer and dryer in our new home yet, so I hauled all the bedding, clothing and stuffed animals to the laundry mat.  Everyone in the family had their hair treated.  This was all in the midst of the chaos of unpacking and the start of a new school year.  It was an interesting way to kick off our new life in a new state.  Had I been asked at the time if I appreciated lice, I wouldn’t have hesitated to say absolutely not- it added a bit of stress to our lives.  However, I believe God did have a reason for the lice, beyond my understanding.  Those little pests caused me to feel quite humble - because it felt like it was something I couldn’t cope with or control.  It’s funny how adversity brings us to our knees.
During the summer of 2017, my husband and I traveled with friends to Amsterdam.  A highlight of the trip was a guided tour through Corrie ten Boom’s home in Haarlem.  Her incredible story of faith, obedience and forgiveness during the Holocaust was recorded in her biography, The Hiding Place.  Seeing every room of the little house made the reality of the events in her book very real.  Corrie and her sister Betsie, daughters of a watchman, worked with their father to help many Jews escape the Nazis from the Holocaust during World War ll by hiding them in their home. They were a strong Christian family who believed that God wanted them to protect Jews.  The entire family was eventually caught and arrested.  The sisters were incarcerated in Ravensbruck concentration camp, where Betsie died at age 59.    
There was a particular flea situation in the book that caused me to have a new perspective on fleas and other “little” things in life that cause distress.  The following is a paraphrased excerpt from the book.  In their barracks, there were a series of platforms stacked three levels high and packed in so tight the women were like human sardines.  Rancid straw placed on top of the platforms served as mattresses.  Not exactly sanitary conditions.  At one point Corrie became exasperated as she was being bitten by fleas.  “Fleas”, she cried.  “Betsie, the place is swarming with them...Betsie, how can we live in such a place?”  And then Betsie did something incredible- she began to pray.  “Show us.  Show us how....Corrie!  He has given us the answer, as He always does!”  In a smuggled, hidden Bible, Betsie asked Corrie to read a passage they had read together earlier that morning.  1 Thessalonians 5:14-18:  “Comfort the frightened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.  See that none of you repays evil for evil, but always seek to do good for one another and to all.  Rejoice always, pray constantly, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus.”  Betsie had a revelation- to give thanks in all circumstances.  She and Corrie thought of every thing in the barracks that they could be thankful for.  It all sounded great until Betsie thanked God for the fleas.  Corrie went along with this even though she was sure Betsie was wrong.  As time went on, Corrie came to realize that Betsie was, in fact, correct.  There was a purpose for the fleas.  The sisters discovered that the guards were very aware of the infestation and refused to enter the platforms, leaving the Bible undetected, and ultimately protecting the women who were housed there from the abuse of the guards.
As I reflect on the flea affliction, our lice situation, as well as other times in my life that I have had to endure  pain and hardship, I can see that God had a purpose for it.  Beyond what I could see at the time.  And I have always had a choice.  I could choose to become bitter and resentful.  Or I could choose to humble myself and turn to God, and be thankful in all circumstances.

Looking back, I can see numerous blessings that occurred during the two years that we lived in Minnesota, despite the rough patch at the beginning.  When the unwelcome pests invaded our new home, I immediately drew closer to God.  I turned to Him at a time when I could have easily gotten caught up with the “we are in a new place and have to start over with everything” phase.  Our spiritual lives in Minnesota grew immensely and we became closer as a family.  It was like God had hit a re-set button.  It was the first time in our married life we found a church that fit biblically and challenged us to work out our faith.  All of the obligations that had piled up in New York fell away when we moved to Minnesota.  We had redeemed time with our children and they thrived.  Bottom line, I am thankful for the lice as this may have been the pivotal moment when I turned toward God.  Maybe lice will be #1,981 in my gratitude list tomorrow morning...
Corrie & Betsie ten Boom
I pray that our hearts and lips overflow with gratitude as we live life out in this unusual time.  Even when faced with discouraging circumstances, we all can turn to the Lord, who continues to be an ever present help in time of need.  As we focus on God’s blessings, may our hearts be lightened so that we can become more able to serve God, our families and our communities and ultimately spread His light to a world in need.



Monday, March 30, 2020

Family Fun Tips

Family Fun Tips
By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

During this unusual time of being quarantined, you may find yourselves wondering what in the world you are going to do at home with the children day in and day out.  I have some suggestions to keep mom and dad sane and your sons and daughters occupied, learning and making memories.  
  1. Routine:  As a homeschool mom,  I remember being tempted to sleep in and let the kiddos wear their pj’s all day.  Not a good plan.  Everyone feels better and more productive when they get up at a set time, get dressed and sit down for breakfast.  A prayer and a simple bible verse at the same time every morning is also a great way to fill up spiritually.  Those bible verses can lead to great discussions.  Eat lunch together.  We used to listen to Focus on the Family’s Adventures in Odyssey during lunch.  It was a nice diversion.  Try to end your day around the same time.  If your children know there is a set time to finish with something fun to look forward to, they will be more apt to work diligently.  Then be ready when school is done.  Have a snack, game or a little time set aside to let off some steam. 
  2. Stay connected:  While isolated, social connections are very challenging.  It’s time to think outside the box and use technology to our advantage.  Set up Zoom, WhatsApp or FaceTime for you and your family so you can connect with loved ones.  Some tech games can be very beneficial in helping your children connect with friends, such as Minecraft.  Have your children draw a picture of a great memory they have had with their grandparents.  Text the picture to them.
  3. Physical activity:  It’s time to think of new ways to get the blood flowing.  Work together with your family to set up an obstacle course.  If you have space outside, go for it!  If you don’t, set it up in your house.  Move the furniture around to make tunnels, slides, foam ball targets and hurdles.  Or create a dance playlist and have a dance party.  Form a human train and everyone does what the leader is doing as you follow a set path around your house.  After a couple minutes, change leaders.  For older children who want more traditional exercise, find fitness workouts online.  Fitnessblender is a great resource with a variety of workouts that you can do in your home with or without weights.  Or dust off the treadmill or stationary bike sitting in the corner and put it to use!
  4. Positive Distractions:  We are constantly being inundated with dire news.  Try to keep it to an age-appropriate level so that your children don’t become overly anxious or depressed.  Think of things your children love to do and really delve into those interests.  For instance, if you have a baker, get some inspiration by watching “The Great British Baking Show” or go on instagram #cake decorating and spend as much time as you like watching.  Then have your child use their imagination to bake and decorate a masterpiece.  Or watch some Foodnetwork “Chopped” episodes and then have your own “Chopped” competition.
  5. House projects:  Now is a great time to check off items on your to-do list.  Get the children involved.  It will get done faster and everyone will feel a great sense of accomplishment.  For instance, your 12 year old son has been asking to change out the dinosaur wallpaper for a neutral coat of paint.  Here’s your chance to tackle that project with him.  And if you have Audible, play a classic book series that you both enjoy, such as The Chronicles of Narnia or Lord of the Rings.
  6. Set the Tone:  Parents, it’s important for us to lead by example.  Take your anxious thoughts to God and pray blessings on your children.  Use this as a time to grow stronger as a family, despite the challenging situations you may be facing. 
“As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good...” Genesis 50:20.

Monday, March 2, 2020

Refreshment in our Daily Lives
By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

We all work hard.  Many of us are up and out of bed by 6:00 and hit the ground running-checking emails, getting children ready for the day, cleaning up last night’s mess, and the list goes on.  So many hats to wear and so little time.  Our fast paced lives can leave us feeling frazzled!  But did you know that you can find refreshment in the midst of the craziness of our lives?  So take a minute, sit back with a cup of jo and prepare to be encouraged with some tips from a mom whose been there.

Spiritual Refreshment

  1. Bless someone else.  This may seem counterintuitive, but pouring into someone else actually fills us up.  When my children were young, I would take them with me to deliver meals to people in need.  We did this 2-4 times/month. It would have been easier to keep them at home, or not go at all for that matter.  What was surprising to me about these trips was not how much the people appreciated the meals, but how it made us feel.  There were so many times I left realizing we were the ones that were blessed.  Many times, just taking the focus off our ourselves and pouring into someone else ultimately fills us up.  In Ezekiel 36:26, it says “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh”.  We have the transforming power of Christ living in us.  So the things that break God’s heart should also break ours.  Where is God breaking yours?  Is it bringing meals to needy, volunteering at a refugee center, helping the homeless?  Pursue those areas where you truly have a passion and desire to serve.  Serving others can be a major source of spiritual refreshment.
  2. Purposefully Pray.  Intentionally take your desires, needs and struggles to the One who can handle them all.  Cry out to God for those around you.  Again, taking time to focus your attention on needs of others will revive your soul and keep your perspective correct. When He answers prayers, praise Him.  
  3. Pray throughout the day.  Talk to Jesus like He really is your best friend.  Have ongoing conversations with Him and keep connected to this lifeline.
  4. Designate a weekly day of rest.  The sabbath day was God’s design since the beginning.  For our family, it is Sunday.  It is a day to unwind, reset, and recharge.  The cares of the world can wait.
  5. Witness His creation. “When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them?”  Psalm 8:3-4.  Take time to watch the sun rise or set, study a flower, watch a bird.  Appreciating God’s creation can put your focus on Him.  To be in awe of Him and everything He gave you can reinvigorate the desire to fulfill His will in your life.
  6. Sing.  Anytime, anywhere and it doesn’t matter how good or bad a voice you think you have.  Worshipping Him can change the atmosphere and mood.
  7. Study the word and be doers of the word.  Read His word for understanding and revelation.  Then go share the good news with others.  James says in James 1:22, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves.  Do what it says.”  And further in the passage: “...not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it - he will be blessed in what he does.”

Physical/Mental Refreshment

“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?  You are not your own:  you were bought at a price.  Therefore honor God with your bodies” 1 Corinthians 6:19-20.  Take time to take care of the temple that God created.  It will keep you going strong after the things that God has called you to.

  1. Exercise.  It doesn’t have to be complicated.  There are many benefits of simply taking a  walk.   Getting fresh air, no distractions, sunshine (Vitamin D, my friends:) and enjoying nature are just a few perks of walking.  While you’re at it, grab your kiddos or dog for the fun of it.
  2. Eat well.  Nourish and fuel your body with simple, home cooked food.  Drink well -hydrate your body with no sugar drinks.  Water rocks!
  3. Get some rest.  A good night’s sleep makes a world of difference.  7-9 hours is the optimum amount.
  4. Play.  Turn off screens.  Spend face to face time with those you care about.  Go outside no matter what the weather.  Run around and be silly- grab a child or a dog.  Pull out a board game and gather around.  Have fun - laughter is good for you!
  5. Work.  Doing a task that is physically demanding like gardening or painting can actually be invigorating.  When the task is complete, there is a great sense of accomplishment.
  6. Take a time out.  Pause and read a good book and take a sip of coffee.
  7. Connect with others.  Call a friend or family member.  If you can’t see each other face-to-face, hearing someone’s voice is the next best thing.


Choose a couple of these tips (or maybe all of them:) and try them out.  May they be a help and encouragement to you!

Wednesday, January 22, 2020

Inexpensive, Quick and Nutritious Foods
*IE put these in your grocery cart
By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator


Who needs to run to the grocery store?  Are you watching your wallet, watch and waist?  Add the following foods to your cart.

Eggs- Eggs are a cheap source of protein.  They are rich in EPA and DHA (responsible for nervous system health and mental health.)  Also high in leucine, an essential amino acid, helpful in building muscle.  Eggs can be eaten at any meal and any snack.  My favorite way to eat eggs is in a frittata for breakfast:  eggs beaten with a little seasonings, a few sautéed veggies and cheese mixed together and placed in a cast iron pan and baked at high temp in the oven.  Perfect for a Saturday morning.  Leftovers can be easily heated and eaten at any meal.  I like to use boiled  eggs and even pickled eggs in some of my salads and sandwiches.

Leafy Greens- Spinach won’t cost you an arm and leg.  I frequently purchase the large organic containers in Wal-Mart for a very reasonable price.  Frozen chopped spinach costs $1.00/bag.  Already washed, it is a base or addition to a super easy and quick meal. Since Popeye, spinach has been famous for it’s health value.  This nutrient dense food is high in vitamins and minerals, low in calories, and versatile in cooking.  I use spinach in any meal of the day.  It can be eaten fresh in salads or cooked in soup, eggs or casseroles.  I love to blend frozen spinach in my smoothies.  Want to create a complete meal salad that boasts of this dark leafy green?  Try this Jamaican jerk Chicken recipe.  Thoroughly coat chicken tenders or fish with spices including: garlic powder, cayenne, thyme, salt, all-spice, black pepper and cinnamon.  Place in a hot skillet coated with oil and cook until done.  In a large bowl, toss together spinach, pineapple, tomatoes, avocado, and toasted coconut.  Add a simple dressing (blend olive oil, lime juice and a little honey) and you’ve got yourself a festive, nourishing meal!

Apple Cider Vinegar- Apple cider vinegar is one of the quickest, cheapest, and easiest ways to add a health and flavor boost to your meals.  A few glugs will brighten up so many of your foods, including home made salad dressings, soups, chilis, and stews.  It’s the perfect tang to round out flavors and satisfy the taste buds.  If you want to up the nutrient value, look for the “mother”, which is a spider-web like growth that usually sits at the bottom of the bottle.  Almost all grocery stores carries this, including Aldi and Wal-Mart.  Apple cider vinegar perks include:  potassium, aids digestion, antiviral, antibacterial and antifungal, as well as high in many vitamins and minerals.  I love to pickle veggies with my apple cider vinegar and of course I use it in many of my dressings!  How about adding some sweet and tangy pickled onions to your salad, sandwich or burger?  Try making your own pickled veggies:  heat 2 cups vinegar, 2 cups water, 1/4 cup sweetener and 2 tablespoons sea salt until everything is dissolved.  Pour into a quart size canning jar that is full of very thinly sliced red onion.  Cool at room temp.  They will be ready to eat once they’re bright pink and tender- about one hour.


So there ya go!  Some simple, easy ingredients that can cut time and $ as well as add flavor and nutrients to your meals.  Let me know what you did with these super yummy foods!

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Hospitality

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

Hospitality is about relationships and making your guests feel welcome.  While the concept may feel a bit overwhelming, it shouldn’t be the case.  With all we have going on, it’s easy to come up with excuses.  If we let excuses get in the way of opening up our home, we miss out on so many opportunities to bless as well as be blessed.  So don’t worry about having everything perfect!  Here are some easy steps to get you started.  

Happy host. Your guests are there for you, not your home.  Don’t stress over trying to make your home Pinterest worthy.  Be kind and welcoming and your guests will have a wonderful time.
Offer.  Have something to offer guests if they are not coming for a meal (you don’t have to host a fancy dinner).  It’s nice to serve something to drink (water or coffee is fine) and a little snack.  A fresh batch of cookies has the added benefit of making the whole house smell good.
Spontaneous.  Being able to welcome surprise guests into your home is a wonderful feeling.  Embrace the sense of adventure in preparing for last minute guests.
Prep your freezer and fridge.  Buy in bulk, so you have something on hand when unexpected company arrives.  Cube chicken breasts or steak and place in a freezer container with some marinade.  These are great for grilled kabobs, stir fries or throwing on a sheet pan and roasting with veggies (fresh or frozen).  When possible, pre-cut fruits or veggies.  They make it easy to pull together a veggie and dip platter or stir fry.
Inviting atmosphere.  Set the tone by adding a few easy welcoming touches.  Pretty and clean dish towels and hand towels, calming music, fresh cut flowers from your yard, and lit candles make guests feel special.
Tidy up.  Take 5 minutes to deal with unattended messes.  Sweep up dirt in a high traffic area, empty stinky garbage, clean the toilet, throw the pile of toys in a closet, fluff up the throw pillows.  This quick clean up can do wonders for making your house inviting.
Alternatives to dinner.  Offer to watch a neighbor’s children for an afternoon, ask a friend over for coffee just to catch up, fellowship over a Saturday morning brunch or after church popcorn, or host a simple tea party.
Listen.  Don’t get so caught up in your to-do list that you forget to just sit and enjoy the conversation.  After eating, linger at the table.  The dishes can wait.
Intentional invitations.  Make an effort to purposefully plan a special meal (or host for a weekend).  Write it in your calendar in advance and plan out your meal(s).
Train your children to be gracious hosts.  Enlist your children in getting ready and welcoming your guests into your home.  Ask them to entertain with a song on their instruments.  Have them help with meal prep or plan a game.
Yes.  Say yes as much as possible.  Be wiling to give of yourself and of what God has given you.  


With Christmas around the corner, I hope you have an opportunity to incorporate some of these tips into your hosting opportunities.  May God bless you as you bless others!

Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Holiday Survival Guide

By Rebekah Zehr, Parent Committee Coordinator

Halloween always seems to be the turning point from back to school, changing leaves and outdoor activities to all things holiday.  And the holiday season lasts from now until the beginning of January.  That’s two months out of twelve that we go to all kinds of special parties and dinners.  It becomes so easy for our healthy eating lifestyle to get derailed by all the tempting foods available. Let’s decide now that this season will not lead to derailment!  Here are ten tips to help you stay on track.

  1. Become very intentional now in telling yourself that you will not be derailed.  You will completely enjoy the holiday season and not feel defeated. For the next two months commit to maintaining your weight.
  2. Rest and get exercise.  Both are very important in keeping your metabolism high.  Go for a walk outside with a friend or family member and enjoy all the pretty decorations.
  3. Eat well during mealtimes.  Fill your plate with lots of leafy greens and non starchy veggies (such as salads:).  Include protein in your diet to help you feel satiated.  If your blood sugar is regulated, you won’t be headed to parties ready to dive into all the high sugar treats.  They just won’t be as compelling.
  4. At a dinner/party, be selective with the food you put on your plate.  To make sure you have at least one healthy item, bring something to add to the table.  Look for raw veggies and other unprocessed options to put on your plate first.  Then add small portions of a couple foods that you absolutely love- even if they aren’t that good for you.  Don’t deprive yourself of enjoying something that you have waited all year for!
  5. Cultivate healthy eating habits.  Sit down to eat.  Relax and savor the food.  Take some deep breathes.  Eat slowly and enjoy the conversations around you.
  6. Keep foods around your house that are festive and healthy.  When you get a craving, go for these foods first.  Some ideas are:  mixed nuts in the shell, a few varieties of specialty cheese, pomegranates, a new sweet potato dish, or a special, unsweetened holiday tea or coffee.
  7. Speaking of drinks, eat your treat don’t drink it.  High sugar drinks hit your system like a flood, causing high blood sugar spikes.  If you are ready to enjoy something sweet, eat it!  It will digest much slower than a sugary drink.
  8. Do you have lots of leftover treats after the party that you hosted?  Give them away!  Find a family that has teenage boys with high metabolisms and bless them.  You don’t need all the indulgent food staring at you from the countertops every time you walk in the kitchen.
  9. Keep your family traditions but seek healthier alternatives that are delicious.  For example, try something different with your traditional family lasagne.  Use whole wheat noodles, add spinach or sub some of the noodles with thin slices of zucchini or eggplant.
  10. The words that you tell yourself are powerful!  If you happen to completely overindulge one night, do not give yourself a guilt trip and convince yourself that you are a failure.  Just get up the next morning, have a great breakfast and don’t look back!!  My favorite reset breakfast is scrambled eggs with non starchy veggies, hold the high carb bagels/breads.  Or I have a big bowl of cooked old fashioned rolled oats, no sugar, with berries or diced apples.
*Bonus tip- complements of my husband.  Don’t watch every football game that is playing.  It’s way too much sitting.  Also, you tend to mindlessly snack while you are sitting which can be a double whammy.

I hope these tips help you to be proactive this holiday season.  I am glad I had a chance to write this and remind myself of these strategies as the holiday season can be challenging for me as well.


If you try any of these tips, let me know how they worked for you.  Looking forward to hearing about your progress between now and January.